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Rickster · #21 (**permalink**) 02-15-2007, 11:08 AM

cammmoo or somoneone give him the standard link to these types of questions!

Patrick_Bateman · #22 (**permalink**) 02-15-2007, 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Roles

I thought about that too....nothing I can do about that though.

Sure you can, look for signs. People act differently when they are with new people ( ****ing new people) . Hire a PI if it seems she is cheating. Watch computer activity, working late more than often, trips out of the blue. Also if your sex life with her is nonexistent or close to it.

Patrick_Bateman · #23 (**permalink**) 02-15-2007, 12:10 PM

Women Are Dream Killers

Women are dream killers. When a women wants you to do something it's telling you that her dream comes first and that she doesn't care about your dream. They often secretly wish that you never reach your dreams so you can never trade up.

Patrick_Bateman · #24 (**permalink**) 02-15-2007, 12:12 PM

Ultimatum, Run

If a women gives you an ultimatum then run and don't look back.
Never, ever give in to an ultimatum. Any time a women tells you to stop doing something the answer is NO. Do not give into her demands. There is just no two ways about it. Stop being pussy boys! No body should tell you want to do. It is amazing how many men just do what they are told by women. If you don't put your foot down then the women will keep pushing you and controlling you. Be prepared to deal with the consequences.

Patrick_Bateman · #25 (**permalink**) 02-15-2007, 12:13 PM

Start listening every day........this man is God

The Tom Leykis Show - BlowMeUpTom.com

jennyd · #26 (**permalink**) 02-15-2007, 12:14 PM

HaHaHa....As always....excellent marital and relationship advice by PB.

ktinspired · #27 (**permalink**) 02-15-2007, 12:30 PM

Role ...whatever you do dont take him (PB) serious.....

Renegade68 · #28 (**permalink**) 02-15-2007, 09:21 PM

Tom Leykis is hilarious.

Dreamkillers....LOL - adding that one to the back pocket for future droppage.

Roles - if you suspect it, then its even more likely. Just be aware of her activities, changes, etc. as PB mentioned.

Patrick_Bateman · #29 (**permalink**) 02-16-2007, 07:48 AM

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Originally Posted by ktinspired

Role ...whatever you do dont take him (PB) serious.....

I am 100% serious

The best rule for you men to follow is never! never take a womans advice when it comes to dating and/or marriage.

ktinspired · #30 (**permalink**) 02-16-2007, 07:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Patrick_Bateman

I am 100% serious

The best rule for you men to follow is never! never take a womans advice when it comes to dating and/or marriage.

you cant be that jaded???? your heart cant be that hard...

I dont believe that you never compliment women...the way you come across is really bad..I just dont buy it.

Patrick_Bateman · #31 (**permalink**) 02-16-2007, 07:56 AM

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Originally Posted by ktinspired

you cant be that jaded????

I dont believe that you never compliment women...the way you come across is really bad..I just dont buy it.

Damn that was quick

Jaded?? yes but that has nothing to do with my advice. I have had the same opinion since I was 20 and now I am 39.

Women and men are not the same at all, and women have no abiility to give men dating advice.

mitchcumstein · #32 (**permalink**) 02-16-2007, 07:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Patrick_Bateman

Sure you can, look for signs. People act differently when they are with new people ( ****ing new people) . Hire a PI if it seems she is cheating. Watch computer activity, working late more than often, trips out of the blue. Also if your sex life with her is nonexistent or close to it.

I agree with this. If shes cheating you need to get it all documented in case this ends up in divorce court. Usually the spouse that cheats first loses. Thats some leverage you could definetly use on your side.

ktinspired · #33 (**permalink**) 02-16-2007, 08:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Patrick_Bateman

Damn that was quick

Jaded?? yes but that has nothing to do with my advice. I have had the same opinion since I was 20 and now I am 39.

Women and men are not the same at all, and women have no abiility to give men dating advice.

ya men and women are different..soemtimes it helps a man to get teh womens perspective.....

btw..my advice was more to help him find inner happiness for himself....
I dont think the way she delivered that message was rigth at all....If he lacks confidence.... Its likely she demasculinize him.

jennyd · #34 (**permalink**) 02-16-2007, 08:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Patrick_Bateman

Women Are Dream Killers

Women are dream killers. When a women wants you to do something it's telling you that her dream comes first and that she doesn't care about your dream. They often secretly wish that you never reach your dreams so you can never trade up.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Patrick_Bateman

Ultimatum, Run

If a women gives you an ultimatum then run and don't look back.
Never, ever give in to an ultimatum. Any time a women tells you to stop doing something the answer is NO. Do not give into her demands. There is just no two ways about it. Stop being pussy boys! No body should tell you want to do. It is amazing how many men just do what they are told by women. If you don't put your foot down then the women will keep pushing you and controlling you. Be prepared to deal with the consequences.

PB, you crack me up...and the funniest part is that I really DO believe you're serious.
And actually...I can't disagree with some of the things you posted in here....but that's not to say that there aren't good women out there that do support their men, and women that would rather talk about an issue than give an ultimatum.

BUT....we are only seeing one side to this story. I betcha if she came on here, and posted all the stuff he does, we'd all tell her to go find a new man too.
Nobody is really in any position to give relationship advice to anyone unless you're the one in that particular relationship. Because there are always two sides to a story.

ktinspired · #35 (**permalink**) 02-16-2007, 08:50 AM

i always find it easier to solve other people problems than my own

CubanChick · #36 (**permalink**) 02-16-2007, 08:52 AM

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Originally Posted by jennyd

PB, you crack me up...and the funniest part is that I really DO believe you're serious.
And actually...I can't disagree with some of the things you posted in here....but that's not to say that there aren't good women out there that do support their men, and women that would rather talk about an issue than give an ultimatum.

BUT....we are only seeing one side to this story. I betcha if she came on here, and posted all the stuff he does, we'd all tell her to go find a new man too.
Nobody is really in any position to give relationship advice to anyone unless you're the one in that particular relationship. Because there are always two sides to a story.

Good post J.
For days I have been reading this and wanted to give the same .02

Patrick_Bateman · #37 (**permalink**) 02-16-2007, 09:57 AM

I feel that I have solved this young mans problems .

If any of you have relationship problems feel free to PM me about them.

CubanChick · #38 (**permalink**) 02-16-2007, 10:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Patrick_Bateman

I feel that I have solved this young mans problems .

If any of you have relationship problems feel free to PM me about them.

LOL