relationship trouble...can we talk?

[TorontoMoFo]

tough **** right there...


all i have to add is that atleast your kids are all grown and out of the house...

thats HUGE. I mean you have basicaly fulfilled your roles as mother and father.. your kids will do their own sh!t.. I wish my parents had stayed together until I was older.

Unfortunately for me, my father left when I was 4 yrs old so I NEVER had a father+mother deal where we would all go do fun sh!t together. I can never be at that age again and have those kinds of experiences. Lucky for your kids..

[ktinspired]

actually we are a blended family......we dont have children together. Our kids are all from previous marriages. So i understand what you are saying totally.

[Renegade68]

Originally Posted by ktinspired

ahhhh a nieghbor! Cool! macdill? Just over the bridge from here!

How about that - I'm in Valrico @ Diamond Hill GC.

Blended as well......none together. Tried - just didn't work. Which looking back is best since we LOVE our freedom now. Not having to worry about whether the kids need a babysitter, should come with, have track practice, etc., etc. Weird though - my daughter and her current beau are still over every Saturday evening for BBQ when I'm home. They never really go away. LOL.

[adrenaline]

Um, i think your husband needs to hear this... Maybe he doesnt realise the way you feel and he just thinks your that close you can have an argument about cheese and forget about it later...

Im only 16 thou .. But i always have arguments with my siblings and some close friends but hell i wouldnt wish any harm on em.

[Papasmurf]

Im glad you decided to talk it out with him. Im positive things will work out when he realizes how much he has hurt you.

[ktinspired]

things have been great since I we talked this over. Im feeling so much better ..I shoulda talked with way before.

*****sighs***