Talking to your kids about sex. - Page 3 - BodybuildingForYou

Poobah · #41 (**permalink**) 03-09-2006, 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by sweetthing

as for myself mine are already curious as can be but I think i'll wait a few more yrs.

My son is 9 and my daughter is 7 soon to be 8 ( on sunday).

Everytime poobs and I are in the room and my daughter hears some kind of noise ..She tells us ; "what where you doing in there? " I told her; " exercise". She responds ; "No mom, I know what you were doing in there, you were having seeeex."

..this is how I feel afterwards.

Then we go to my parents place and she asked Poobs in front of my father "why do you always have sex with my mom?" lmao..

More and more questions are starting to pop out ..

Embaressing questions...

fitme · #42 (**permalink**) 03-09-2006, 01:00 PM

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Originally Posted by sweetthing

as for myself mine are already curious as can be but I think i'll wait a few more yrs.

My son is 9 and my daughter is 7 soon to be 8 ( on sunday).

Everytime poobs and I are in the room and my daughter hears some kind of noise ..She tells us ; "what where you doing in there? " I told her; " exercise". She responds ; "No mom, I know what you were doing in there, you were having seeeex."

..this is how I feel afterwards.

Then we go to my parents place and she asked Poobs in front of my father "why do you always have sex with my mom?" lmao..

More and more questions are starting to pop out ..

I dint know u guys had kids! lol

Is this what I have to look forward to?

sweetthing · #43 (**permalink**) 03-09-2006, 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by fitme

I dint know u guys had kids! lol

Is this what I have to look forward to?

Well they are not his biological kids but he still takes them as his own which is sweet.

Yep, you have lots to look forward to when you have kids!!! lol

TRAZ · #44 (**permalink**) 03-09-2006, 01:15 PM

/\/\ I can't imagine the embarrassment....

fitme · #45 (**permalink**) 03-09-2006, 01:18 PM

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Originally Posted by sweetthing

Well they are not his biological kids but he still takes them as his own which is sweet.

Yep, you have lots to look forward to when you have kids!!! lol

i do have kids...2 as well...but younger than yours...lol

i'm one of the old ladies on the board...lol

jennyd · #46 (**permalink**) 03-09-2006, 05:43 PM

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Originally Posted by tryin2gain

Oh my god... Jenny is a milf.

I dont think you need to have a full out talk with him, but you should probably tell him that some of his behavior in public is unacceptable.

LOL...Thanks.

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Originally Posted by TraineMind

off topic...jenny is that your picture? damn nice...*wipes drool off*

on topic...you just need to let your boy know that there's a proper place for everything and ease him to reality...at 5 years it's curiosity and is cute and somewhat acceptable but later on down the line you need to pave the way and let him know the right way

Yes, that's me.

But to respond to both of you...he doesn't get away with doing those kind of things in public. When he has done them, he's gotten talked to, and he knows that it's not acceptable behavior.
I just haven't had "THE TALK" with him. I think he's a little young for that. I just think that his curiosity gets the best of him....even if I'm wearing a loose shirt, and say I'm tying his shoes or something, he'll start chuckling...when I look up, he's peeking down my shirt to try and see some boobs (to his disappointment, there really isn't much to see - but it doesn't stop him from trying).

TRAZ · #47 (**permalink**) 03-10-2006, 09:16 AM

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Originally Posted by jennyd

LOL...Thanks.

Yes, that's me.

But to respond to both of you...he doesn't get away with doing those kind of things in public. When he has done them, he's gotten talked to, and he knows that it's not acceptable behavior.
I just haven't had "THE TALK" with him. I think he's a little young for that. I just think that his curiosity gets the best of him....even if I'm wearing a loose shirt, and say I'm tying his shoes or something, he'll start chuckling...when I look up, he's peeking down my shirt to try and see some boobs (to his disappointment, there really isn't much to see - but it doesn't stop him from trying).

I don't blame him for looking...each avatar of yours has gotten progressively hotter and hotter...

Really nice job!

PADZZ · #48 (**permalink**) 03-10-2006, 10:02 AM

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Originally Posted by BUFFLURP

Ok, well last time i was with my son, i gave him "the speech" about sex. We talked for about 1 1/2 hrs on it. It was so funny because my son really is more innocent than most 5 year olds, no lying, he had alot of questions, and i think i handled it pretty well. We talked about waiting til marraige, having urges(i didnt say horny, i just couldnt), body developmetn, and the whole bit. Then of course, i gave him the religious point of view on sexual things.

anyway, did you guys find it hard to talk to your kids about sex?

I didnt really. it was hard when he didnt understand something, but that is expected.

Have you talked to your kids about sex at all? given they are of age.

what was harder for you to talk about, what was easier?

I really found that talking about puberty and body development was easy. explaining girls was harder. He already knew about how conception works(sperm amd egg).

What was hardest was trying to tell him why people have sex outside of marraige and why people masterbate. I told him that masturbation was a sin, and shouldnt. he didnt understand what the attraction to it was. I told him never to find out, lol. but still i told him people do it because it feels good, and such. Then he was so cute because he asked if adjusting yourself while having an erection was considered masturbation(innocent i tell ya).

overall the talk was good and we discussed it pretty in depth with a serious but relaxed way. it wasnt uncomfortable for either of us too bad.

my parents never talked to me about sex. I wish they had when i was younger because I was pretty naive til H.S.

anyway, any thoughts? experiences?

A little off topic, but Bufflurp. First you said you were a virgin, then you said you were going on a mission....and now you got kids? It's not nice to lie on internet chat forums. What gives?

BUFFLURP · #49 (**permalink**) 03-10-2006, 10:11 AM

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Originally Posted by PADZZ

A little off topic, but Bufflurp. First you said you were a virgin, then you said you were going on a mission....and now you got kids? It's not nice to lie on internet chat forums. What gives?

Who do you think I am? STEELGIRL

I am a virgin. I do have a son, and I am going on a mission. I figured someone would inquire eventually. Being I adopted my son, and I am 19 and will going on a mission. (It's all worked out Ive been given special privileges, approved by the leaders of the church and are confidential) and I have never gone down on a woman..or a man.

I've gone through a bunch a crap the last 2 years with all of this whole thing. It would take me days to type and post all of the details and circumastances. And I don't have the time, nor the desire.

Which reminds me of the good news. My son will be here tomorrow. I am so excited!!

PADZZ · #50 (**permalink**) 03-10-2006, 10:18 AM

Ya, I've had a kid that went through adoption through LDS fam. services. All I know is that the person who adopted him or her had to meet certain financial criteria...yet you're going to get a kid at 19 and then leave him for 2 years? That's cool you got it worked out. Good luck man. Church works in misterious ways.

PADZZ · #51 (**permalink**) 03-10-2006, 10:20 AM

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Originally Posted by BUFFLURP

I've gone through a bunch a crap the last 2 years with all of this whole thing. !!

So you started the adoption process at 17 y.o.?

Anyway, just curious. Not trying to bust your balls.

BUFFLURP · #52 (**permalink**) 03-10-2006, 10:30 AM

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Originally Posted by PADZZ

So you started the adoption process at 17 y.o.?

Anyway, just curious. Not trying to bust your balls.

Yeah, If you had read up in another post, can't remember where, i kinda explained the whole sit. briefly.

Balls not busted. LOL.

I was given custody before my 18th, but it was close, and it was granted, so that when it was set in stone I was 18.

Yeah, I am not exactly leaving him behind. Like I said, special privileges. My companions will love this. Never thought of that until now. hahaha.

Ever heard of families moving together for military stationing? kinda the same idea. Obviously the family doesnt go with the dad "to work", and the same thing here. I'v probably said too much. Anyways, yeah, it's all good. My kid will get to learn "Castellano" spanish language, and so will I.

TRAZ · #53 (**permalink**) 03-10-2006, 10:30 AM

There was a thread that explained the whole story (or at least part of it). I think it was deleted in the dump clean up...

BUFFLURP · #54 (**permalink**) 03-10-2006, 10:33 AM

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Originally Posted by PADZZ

Ya, I've had a kid that went through adoption through LDS fam. services. All I know is that the person who adopted him or her had to meet certain financial criteria

This wasn't a problem. I got brains, homie. Check my occu. in the other thread

...yet you're going to get a kid at 19 and then leave him for 2 years? That's cool you got it worked out. Good luck man. Church works in misterious ways.

"The mesage you have enetered is too short. Please lengthen your post to atleast 5 characters."

Hannainnc · #55 (**permalink**) 03-10-2006, 11:01 AM

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Originally Posted by BUFFLURP

"The mesage you have enetered is too short. Please lengthen your post to atleast 5 characters."

No doubt you have brains. I thought I read in another post that your dad owns the company...maybe I'm thinking of someone else though.

PADZZ · #56 (**permalink**) 03-10-2006, 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Hannainnc

No doubt you have brains. I thought I read in another post that your dad owns the company...maybe I'm thinking of someone else though.

WOuldn't that mean you got 'genes'?

More power to ya Buff, more power to ya.

If ya got an 'in' with LDS FS...I'd like to find out some stuff...

BUFFLURP · #57 (**permalink**) 03-10-2006, 02:52 PM

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Originally Posted by PADZZ

WOuldn't that mean you got 'genes'?

More power to ya Buff, more power to ya.

If ya got an 'in' with LDS FS...I'd like to find out some stuff...

Like what? However I got help from them I can't tell you specifically. Not that it is illegal, cause the church wouldnt ever do that, but its kind of private. I think you can understand. But, if i can help, i'll be glad to.

BUFFLURP · #58 (**permalink**) 03-10-2006, 02:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Hannainnc

No doubt you have brains. I thought I read in another post that your dad owns the company...maybe I'm thinking of someone else though.

Close, he is the President. It's not fmily onwed, so i got this job because i qualified by the know-how, rather than by school degree. I am blessed that way. Thank you, Lord. Still, when i return i will go to school and get my degree so they can pay me more. much more.

Hannainnc · #59 (**permalink**) 03-10-2006, 05:06 PM

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Originally Posted by BUFFLURP

Close, he is the President. It's not fmily onwed, so i got this job because i qualified by the know-how, rather than by school degree. I am blessed that way. Thank you, Lord. Still, when i return i will go to school and get my degree so they can pay me more. much more.

that's pretty cool. you have a super bright future...don't forget your shades..lol