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02-15-2006, 09:25 PM
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not finishing
Hey guys, have you ever had a problem not finishing? I was with this girl I met about a month ago today. It was our first time doing it. We just kissed for the first time Sunday, so it progressed pretty fast since then. Anyway, we only had about an hour and I was ready to go right away if you know what I mean and never lost it. But I could'nt finish. It was'nt her because her body was nicer than I thought it would be and she had a couple o's. I had this happen with my ex a couple times, but I thought it was because I was'nt super attracted to her. Today, we even tried several different things and she asked if there was anything else she could do, but after about 45 minutes, I started to look at the clock because I had to get around to go to work. Do you think this is a problem or just nerves or something (although I did'nt feel that nervous). I was pretty tired too (have'nt slept good the past couple nights) and skipped breakfast because I was running late. It was also my first time doing it for over 2 years. Any advice of what to do next time (if there is, I hope I did'nt scare her off as I really like her) and should I say anything about it when I call her tomorrow or just play it cool and hope for better luck next time?
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02-15-2006, 09:58 PM
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i think its somewhat normal, i finally hooked up with a girl after a while 2 weeks ago first time we did it i couldnt go either and i was going at it for hour and 15 mins i just got to tierd to keep going so i had to stop lucky she went allot and is easy to get off but the second time around it took about 50 mins she doesnt like going more then 15 mins thow because she has multiples and it can take to much out of her what we found that worked is she will give me a 15 to 20 min bj then we will go at it and ill last 20 to 30 mins i think its just all the build up makes it so you fail the first time just keep going at it... also relax and dont over anlyze it... hope this helps.. also she told her freinds i last to long and they all told her to shutup.. lol
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02-16-2006, 01:52 AM
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Yea, that sucks... its all in the head though. i have that problem every once and awhile... usually when im hung over, drunk or with a new girl (usuall a combo of 1 or 2 and 3) or if if the girl has the hallway wide open. As for your case, i think you probably were just nervous... and dont be worried if it happens the next few times... you just have to get comfortable. if you need some help, just concentrate some more (this kind of goes in with the comfort level with the girl) and maybe do some exercises to help you out - like some kegels. Try to find the position where you find yourself most likely to get off... you will know when you start going - remember different strokes for different folks.
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02-16-2006, 09:46 AM
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That is a much better problem than being nervous and not being able to perform. I wouldn't stress about it. Whenever that happens to me I usually get my GF to use her "Kung-Fu Grip" if you know what I mean.....it usually works....besides they usually never complain when you can go for a long time.
 Good for you though...I am glad everything is working out with this girl...are you guys getting serious?
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02-16-2006, 10:26 AM
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Yeah, she even tried oral, which is the only thing she needs some practice on, and her hand, which did get me pretty close, but she started to go a little rough on it, plus I can do that myself. Just wish I could get close doing it regular, but hopefully it will come with more practice...maybe I need to go longer between m. sessions, but thats gonna be hard because I only get to see her a couple times a week (we both have to work and study this weekend) and I don't sleep good if I don't get a release once a day. And yeah, we're getting serious. I was kind of worried if she would call today, but when I got back from school, there was already a message that she called.
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02-16-2006, 03:24 PM
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I would try to hold off on the day of, but not otherwise....If I hold off too much I become a "minute-man" temporarily as I will get way too "excited"...
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02-16-2006, 05:09 PM
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First i would try to relax dont watch the clock or anything.. make sure you have enough time for it dont try to rush it before work or something, dont masterbate the morning before, the night before should be ok as long as you are younger i think "im 25" its just nervs keep going at it u will reach your goal, also make sure you tell her its not because she is un atractive or something my gf though this was the case but i told her if i thought she was then i wouldnt be poping booners 10 minutes after sex lol jsut make sure she knows it, just relax and dont worry about it just shoot for your load maybe u guys need to find somethign that stiulates u more.. everytime i sleep with my gf we try something new... also a weekend sexcapades helped me...
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02-16-2006, 06:08 PM
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How old are you guys? It sounds as if you have the opposite problem of me.
Heres what works for me: 1. Be horny all the time 2. Be 19 years old 3. Enjoy
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02-16-2006, 06:42 PM
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Maybe Women just dont float your boat anymore.... we have another thread on this, its not your CHOICE!!!! jk by the way, that doesnt seem like a problem at all... That is MUCH better than the reverse.... I bet she kinda likes it!!! she now knows you can last, she also probably feels like she owes you 1, that is ALWAYS a plus.... Ive really only had the happen if im wasted.... i dont think it is a big deal at all, mention it if you want, but i personally wouldnt.... no need to, THERE WILL DEFNETLY BE A NEXT TIME, TRUST ME!!!!!!
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02-16-2006, 10:20 PM
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Is that the same girl from the other thread? way to go man
 looks like things worked out beautifully!
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02-17-2006, 12:49 AM
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i think it's because you're rushing.. you're worrying that you'll be late or whatever, so u feel pressured.. that could be the case..
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02-20-2006, 10:30 PM
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Hey guys, I saw her again today and think I can sum it it in two words "it's Goooood" Seriously, it still took awile, it was probly going on an hour when she asked is it me? I kind of shifted gears then and it finally happened. I don't think she really minded because she had her third or so about the same time...It should go better next time too, since I know what turns her on now. But with me I think its more visual and I'm more of a legs guy and there's not alot you can do to incorporate her lower body into it without having her think I'm weird. Not that there's anything wrong with breasts and p. Her p. is nice too and I don't mind going down there, her's is real sweet with almost no odor.
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02-21-2006, 10:22 AM
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There shouldn't really be any odor if the girl takes care of herself...girls that stink have issues...
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02-21-2006, 03:50 PM
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When I first started I couldn't "do it" for the first few times. What you need to do is relax, and try and distance yourself from it, think of something else and just enjoi. The TV was on when I fist managed to finsh
The fresh prince and I was just listening to it.Thank-you Will Smith!
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