not finishing

[Beatin Guts]

Originally Posted by RRAdam

Yea, that sucks... its all in the head though. i have that problem every once and awhile... usually when im hung over, drunk or with a new girl (usuall a combo of 1 or 2 and 3) or if if the girl has the hallway wide open. As for your case, i think you probably were just nervous... and dont be worried if it happens the next few times... you just have to get comfortable. if you need some help, just concentrate some more (this kind of goes in with the comfort level with the girl) and maybe do some exercises to help you out - like some kegels. Try to find the position where you find yourself most likely to get off... you will know when you start going - remember different strokes for different folks.

if the broad can give head, then after you bone her, she should go to work and get you off...tell that biotch to get to work!!!!

[Mrbobcat]

Yeah, its funny she asked a couple times if there was anything she could do. She gave head the first time, but did'nt do a very good job and also used her hand, but did'nt seem too enthused about it, so I just went back "in". I wonder if I should use what primevci said and have her give me a bj before we start next time. But what should I say, or a good way to say "want to give me a bj first?" I usually go down on her first to get he warmed up and then go to town...

[TRAZ]

Don't sweat it man...relax it will "come" with time....

*God that was horrible*

[Primevci]

Originally Posted by Mrbobcat

Yeah, its funny she asked a couple times if there was anything she could do. She gave head the first time, but did'nt do a very good job and also used her hand, but did'nt seem too enthused about it, so I just went back "in". I wonder if I should use what primevci said and have her give me a bj before we start next time. But what should I say, or a good way to say "want to give me a bj first?" I usually go down on her first to get he warmed up and then go to town...

yea i feel like an ass when i say it but she knows i dont mean it that way, she dosent want me to go an hour so she dosent mind... and im lucky i got a g/f that likes to give it and is good at it to..

[John H.]

Originally Posted by Mrbobcat

Hey guys, have you ever had a problem not finishing? I was with this girl I met about a month ago today. It was our first time doing it. We just kissed for the first time Sunday, so it progressed pretty fast since then. Anyway, we only had about an hour and I was ready to go right away if you know what I mean and never lost it. But I could'nt finish. It was'nt her because her body was nicer than I thought it would be and she had a couple o's. I had this happen with my ex a couple times, but I thought it was because I was'nt super attracted to her. Today, we even tried several different things and she asked if there was anything else she could do, but after about 45 minutes, I started to look at the clock because I had to get around to go to work. Do you think this is a problem or just nerves or something (although I did'nt feel that nervous). I was pretty tired too (have'nt slept good the past couple nights) and skipped breakfast because I was running late. It was also my first time doing it for over 2 years. Any advice of what to do next time (if there is, I hope I did'nt scare her off as I really like her) and should I say anything about it when I call her tomorrow or just play it cool and hope for better luck next time?

You actually state the likely reasons in your post: lack of sleep, being rushed because of time contraints, etc.

Having Sexual relationships with others should only be done with those you care about and they you and you should make the time to make sure you complete what you set out to do. Sex is sacred. The opportunity to have such a relationship with another you care about is also sacred. And I hope they as well.

[Mrbobcat]

I know, I really care about her, but we only have certain days we can be together. I'm working 6 days a week right now, so that only leaves Sunday and she usually has to go get her kids Sunday afternoon. The only other time I see her is in school on Mon. and Wed. and we only have about an hour to hour and a half before I have to go to work...hopefully the situation will change eventially, but it's still a pretty new relationship.