It was time...Jen's Journal - Page 9 - BodybuildingForYou

ktinspired · #**161** (**permalink**) 09-18-2008, 04:23 PM

CONGRADULATIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thats great news!

Joementum · #**162** (**permalink**) 09-18-2008, 05:24 PM

Congratulations on your new arrival.

lostboyrufio · #**163** (**permalink**) 09-18-2008, 06:44 PM

congrats jenny, awesome name for the kid btw

jennyd · #**164** (**permalink**) 09-19-2008, 07:11 AM

Thanks all....I'm gonna try and post a pic of the little dude....he's super duper funny to me already. He has this little twitch in his face and he does the Elvis lip, and then he smiles all the time (I know he's not REALLY smiling...but it cracks me up anyway). He kinda looks like he has a bit of a pig nose (lmao) in the 2nd pic, but it's really just cause I have the camera on a funny angle...he doesn't really look like a pig.

Anyway....I'm such a big fatso right now, and it's really bothering me....UUUUUUGGGGGHHHHH! (just wanted to vent)

See you all later.

Oh, My boy got snipped today, and then he'll be home in the afternoon....I'm sure he's not a very happy camper right now.

fitme · #**165** (**permalink**) 09-19-2008, 08:38 AM

congratulations girl, God bless him! He is so adorable. I'm glad to see you back! yeah!

Eighth Wonder · #**166** (**permalink**) 09-19-2008, 09:38 AM

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Originally Posted by jennyd

He kinda looks like he has a bit of a pig nose (lmao) in the 2nd pic

oink oink, haha jk hes cute

czymex · #**167** (**permalink**) 09-19-2008, 01:30 PM

Wow Jen he is a beautiful, good looking man right there, congrats Jen, I hope that happiness, love and prosperity will alway be with you for the rest of your life. Sending out some Texas love to you and your new little one.

BiggerGuns=LongerDrives · #**168** (**permalink**) 09-19-2008, 01:48 PM

CONGRATS JENNY!

He is a cute lil fella, the smiling pic is very cute

ktinspired · #**169** (**permalink**) 09-19-2008, 02:19 PM

HE is beautiful jenny !!!

POWERJIM · #**170** (**permalink**) 09-20-2008, 12:39 AM

Very hansome lad Jenny, you can tell his gonna be a right character someday so be prepared!

Almost makes me want another kid.

jennyd · #**171** (**permalink**) 09-20-2008, 10:35 AM

Thanks so much everone...The first night with him home was great. He was so good.
The only time that he really fussed would be right before it was time for him to get fed....then he went right back to sleep.

My other son has a soccer game today, and I'm not sure what I should do...I don't know if it's a good idea to take Aidan (the new baby) to the soccer field. I'll probably just ask my sister to take Owen (my older son) to his game. Her kid is on his team too.

Ahhhh....dillemas.

narcsarge · #**172** (**permalink**) 09-21-2008, 06:26 AM

Awwww Jenny! He is adorable!

Congratulations to the new addition. You sure to do make them cute don't you? Here's wishing you and your family health and happiness and sleep!

jennyd · #**173** (**permalink**) 09-29-2008, 07:18 AM

Thank you Narc!

OK...so I went to my doctor the other day, and he said that my blood pressure was still high, but not as high as it has been lately, so he's taking me off of bed rest, but insisted that I do NOT over do it, and try to take things as easy as possible.

So, I have decided that I'm going to start working out this week. Anyone that knows a little about me knows that it's been driving me MAD that I haven't been able to do anything. Not to mention that I'm a big fat cow. Grrrr.
(Oh yeah, which leads me to this....my fiance's mom came over the other day and that alone makes me a little uncomfortabe because although I do not have a problem with her - well, I didn't have a problem with her until now - but she doesn't speak English (well, very very very broken English)...my fiance is Puerto Rican...and every time she's at the house or whatever, all they do is speak spanish...no english, and it's basically like I'm totally ignored and left out of the conversation. I might as well leave the room when she's around or they might as well just be whispering secrets to each other...which I think is rude, but whatever. I can understand spanish a little bit, I just can't speak it. I can't understand it word for word or fluently, but I can understand a good amount, and usually can figure out what people are saying or trying to say.
So....anyway, she didn't know that and they are having a big long conversation in Spanish, and all of a sudden, she tells her son that I'm fat. His response??? Yeah, she is, but she's trying to lose weight.
WTF????
I looked at them both and then said to him, "UMMMMMMM, no I'm not trying to lose weight. Did you forget that not only did I have a baby two weeks ago, but I'm still sick and still on bed rest?" Then I looked at his mom and said, "And, Thank You...I know you just called me fat".
He then says to his mom in Spanish..."Oh yeah, she can understand you".
Well, she just started laughing.
I was soooo pissed off. First of all, where does she get off coming into my house and insulting me...not to mention right in front of me, just because she thought I didn't understand her? Second of all, this idiot (my fiance) doesn't even tell his mom that she's F'n rude or try and stick up for me at all. He just tried to make an excuse for me??? GRRRRRRRR!
So the next day I told him exactly how I felt, and he responded by saying, "So what....you're fat. Are you gonna try and tell me that you aren't fat?"

I tried explaining that it wasn't even so much about what she said, but it was the fact that she insulted me and thought it was ok just because she thought I didn't understand. And I was even more mad at the fact that he made it seem like it was ok as well. Instead of telling her that she was out of line.
Am I wrong???

Oh and another thing...my fiance's name is Alberto. My son's name is Aidan. His mom asked me several times while I was pregnant to name the baby Alberto. Each time I told her that we were not naming him after his father. (I don't know why she cares anyway....she never called her son Alberto a day in his life...he's either Papi or Junior to her)...but I think it's awfully pushy for her to ask me to name my child anything...she can go have another kid if she wants to and then name him whatever she likes.

Anyway...we named him Aidan (this was a name that we both agreed on...I didn't just come up with it on my own), and when she was at my house, her son - my fiance - left to go pick up his car that he left at the hospital, and she tells me that she's gonna call the baby Alberto. So, I said to her, 'that's not his name. His name is Aidan'. And she said, yeah, but I want to call him Alberto anyway...I want him to have the same name as his father. So, I told her that he doesn't have the same name as his father, and she told me that she doesn't care. She's calling him Alberto anyway...(What the hell is going on????). So I told her that she's not going to be around him very much if she is not going to respect me or my family and if she's going to call my child a name that isn't his.
She then asks me why I didn't name him Alberto...do I not like that name???
I told her that not only don't I like the name, but I'm also not one of those people that's into naming a child after their parent. I believe a child should be his own person and have his own identity. So, she then says well, I still want to call him Alberto.
OMG...I saw that there was no getting through to her. So when my fiance came back home and she left, I told him what happened, and he said to me, "So what...what does it matter to you?". (I really think I'm in the twilight zone right now).
I said WTF...his name is Aidan...that's why it matters to me. And your mom is very disrespectful and very rude. (He's a big huge mama's boy by the way). And he told me that I was over reacting.

Please tell me, someone...am I over reacting, or is this woman just really disrespectful?

BTW...there are several other things that she's done that I have a problem with too, but those are the major ones. And it's not only a problem with her, but I have a problem with the way that my fiance responds to the things that she does and says too, but that's an ongoing issue.

SO!!!! I realize that I got side tracked, and that I just went into a HUGE story...but it was all because I've come to the conclusion that I'm going to start working out. I am going to take pictures of what I look like now, and then I'll be able to track my progress as I go along.
I'll need some support because my fat a$$ might get a little discouraged along the way.

Eighth Wonder · #**174** (**permalink**) 09-30-2008, 04:00 AM

whats your current annoyance

I think im on your side on this one. You said hes a huge mamas boy and thats probably why hes having a hard time taking your side. In my opinion though he should man up and back his recently preggers wife, especially all the fat talk, thats just rediculous.

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Originally Posted by jennyd

I'll need some support because my fat a$$ might get a little discouraged along the way.

Haha, sorry that made me laugh. Good luck on the training once you get started, dont let the ole lady bring you down

fitme · #**175** (**permalink**) 09-30-2008, 09:02 AM

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Originally Posted by jennyd

Thank you Narc!

OK...so I went to my doctor the other day, and he said that my blood pressure was still high, but not as high as it has been lately, so he's taking me off of bed rest, but insisted that I do NOT over do it, and try to take things as easy as possible.

So, I have decided that I'm going to start working out this week. Anyone that knows a little about me knows that it's been driving me MAD that I haven't been able to do anything. Not to mention that I'm a big fat cow. Grrrr.
(Oh yeah, which leads me to this....my fiance's mom came over the other day and that alone makes me a little uncomfortabe because although I do not have a problem with her - well, I didn't have a problem with her until now - but she doesn't speak English (well, very very very broken English)...my fiance is Puerto Rican...and every time she's at the house or whatever, all they do is speak spanish...no english, and it's basically like I'm totally ignored and left out of the conversation. I might as well leave the room when she's around or they might as well just be whispering secrets to each other...which I think is rude, but whatever. I can understand spanish a little bit, I just can't speak it. I can't understand it word for word or fluently, but I can understand a good amount, and usually can figure out what people are saying or trying to say.
So....anyway, she didn't know that and they are having a big long conversation in Spanish, and all of a sudden, she tells her son that I'm fat. His response??? Yeah, she is, but she's trying to lose weight.
WTF????
I looked at them both and then said to him, "UMMMMMMM, no I'm not trying to lose weight. Did you forget that not only did I have a baby two weeks ago, but I'm still sick and still on bed rest?" Then I looked at his mom and said, "And, Thank You...I know you just called me fat".
He then says to his mom in Spanish..."Oh yeah, she can understand you".
Well, she just started laughing.
I was soooo pissed off. First of all, where does she get off coming into my house and insulting me...not to mention right in front of me, just because she thought I didn't understand her? Second of all, this idiot (my fiance) doesn't even tell his mom that she's F'n rude or try and stick up for me at all. He just tried to make an excuse for me??? GRRRRRRRR!
So the next day I told him exactly how I felt, and he responded by saying, "So what....you're fat. Are you gonna try and tell me that you aren't fat?"

I tried explaining that it wasn't even so much about what she said, but it was the fact that she insulted me and thought it was ok just because she thought I didn't understand. And I was even more mad at the fact that he made it seem like it was ok as well. Instead of telling her that she was out of line.
Am I wrong???

Oh and another thing...my fiance's name is Alberto. My son's name is Aidan. His mom asked me several times while I was pregnant to name the baby Alberto. Each time I told her that we were not naming him after his father. (I don't know why she cares anyway....she never called her son Alberto a day in his life...he's either Papi or Junior to her)...but I think it's awfully pushy for her to ask me to name my child anything...she can go have another kid if she wants to and then name him whatever she likes.

Anyway...we named him Aidan (this was a name that we both agreed on...I didn't just come up with it on my own), and when she was at my house, her son - my fiance - left to go pick up his car that he left at the hospital, and she tells me that she's gonna call the baby Alberto. So, I said to her, 'that's not his name. His name is Aidan'. And she said, yeah, but I want to call him Alberto anyway...I want him to have the same name as his father. So, I told her that he doesn't have the same name as his father, and she told me that she doesn't care. She's calling him Alberto anyway...(What the hell is going on????). So I told her that she's not going to be around him very much if she is not going to respect me or my family and if she's going to call my child a name that isn't his.
She then asks me why I didn't name him Alberto...do I not like that name???
I told her that not only don't I like the name, but I'm also not one of those people that's into naming a child after their parent. I believe a child should be his own person and have his own identity. So, she then says well, I still want to call him Alberto.
OMG...I saw that there was no getting through to her. So when my fiance came back home and she left, I told him what happened, and he said to me, "So what...what does it matter to you?". (I really think I'm in the twilight zone right now).
I said WTF...his name is Aidan...that's why it matters to me. And your mom is very disrespectful and very rude. (He's a big huge mama's boy by the way). And he told me that I was over reacting.

Please tell me, someone...am I over reacting, or is this woman just really disrespectful?

BTW...there are several other things that she's done that I have a problem with too, but those are the major ones. And it's not only a problem with her, but I have a problem with the way that my fiance responds to the things that she does and says too, but that's an ongoing issue.

SO!!!! I realize that I got side tracked, and that I just went into a HUGE story...but it was all because I've come to the conclusion that I'm going to start working out. I am going to take pictures of what I look like now, and then I'll be able to track my progress as I go along.
I'll need some support because my fat a$$ might get a little discouraged along the way.

you're not overeating Jen, she is VERY disrespectful. Your fiance should be on your side too. You just had a baby for crying out loud. Tell her to take her Albeto name and F herself. LOL People that talk right behind your back in another language are down right low. It's her grandson and she should respect the name that you picked for him.
I've been through similiar incidents before in the past with the language issue but now I understand 80% of the Italian language so they can go screw themselves.

I'm sure you're not fat at all either! Keep your chin up and stick up for your right or what YOU believe in! keep in touch. How's the little bambino doing? LOL

BiggerGuns=LongerDrives · #**176** (**permalink**) 09-30-2008, 10:11 AM

You need to learn how to say the following in Spanish

" HIS NAME IS AIDEN BlTCH !!!!"

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Robyn81478 · #**177** (**permalink**) 09-30-2008, 03:13 PM

Welcome back and congrats on your baby boy! Take it EASY for now! I know you're itching to get back into it. I went back to the gym 2 weeks after I had my daughter and it was ROUGH and *I* didn't have a C-section! You'll be back in NO time. That little boy sure is adorable, and I'm sure you're not as "fat" as you think. You looked amazing before and I'll bet you look just as amazing after!! Congrats to you!!!!!!