meeting a gurl

[theycallmeDiesel]

I think i got the worst game...I just cant imagine myself walking up to some hot girl i dunt know and just trying to start a convo. It would be sooo awkward. I mean seriously whats to talk about with a person u have no idea about or dunt ever know their name? Thats my perspective of it all

[mistered]

Try the karate chop on her, she might like it rough.

[Turbo-Muscle5]

Originally Posted by theycallmeDiesel

I think i got the worst game...I just cant imagine myself walking up to some hot girl i dunt know and just trying to start a convo. It would be sooo awkward. I mean seriously whats to talk about with a person u have no idea about or dunt ever know their name? Thats my perspective of it all

yo man me and u are alike.

[Boss 302]

Originally Posted by Turbo-Muscle5

yo man me and u are alike.

I gotta agree with whats been said about just going and talking to them...that's what they want. I regret not being very talkative in High school cause now that I am I really have seen alot more action when it comes to girls and just meeting new people in general. Bottom line is be confident and never care what other people think...unless you really do something dumb

[bar scrapper]

Originally Posted by theycallmeDiesel

I think i got the worst game...I just cant imagine myself walking up to some hot girl i dunt know and just trying to start a convo. It would be sooo awkward. I mean seriously whats to talk about with a person u have no idea about or dunt ever know their name? Thats my perspective of it all

I agree yo, and i have a one word answer as well: ALCOHOL!!!

[Turbo-Muscle5]

im talkative but with certain ppl like for ex in my english class i wasnt very talkative kuz noone had my sense of humor. my new class its perfect

[Boss 302]

Originally Posted by bar scrapper

i have a one word answer as well: ALCOHOL!!!

This advice is in fact good and true.

[thunda cat]

ok.... I am going to get a lot of crap for saying this but I am an ex-player (I am trying to be serious) if you really like her and want an actual relationship the best thing to do is ask to her friends, and just ask about her. If you tell her friends that you appreciate them NOT saying anything they will anyway. After that its all up to her. If she thinks your cute I can gaurantee that you will catch her smiling at you or even just trying to make eye contact with you.

Now... if you just want to hump and dump thats a different story. Some folks on this board have stated that you gotta flash the cash. This is absolutely true for about 95% of females. You gotta act like an ass... call her once and that is it. Date her once and throw down the game like crazy by once again acting like an ass. When she calls dont pick up the phone. This will leave her in suspense. The second time pick up the phone and kick it with some drinks. After that you are golden. DO NOT do lunch dates or meet for coffee. ONLY do the whole night date thing... if she makes you wait more than two dates forget it and move on.... For those who know what I am talking about.... LEYKIS 101 works!!! Beware after a while you will feel bad.... by after a while I mean humping and dumping for a year or two.

GOOD LUCK MAN!

[Dave]

thunda cat i'm not a player myself but i totally agree with you. That is the way, but you have to be good at it. Takes a lot of practise, to perfect it. And if it's not perfect - its not working! heh.

[thunda cat]

being a player is stupid and a waste.... I learned how to play when I was younger.... Only did it because of the peer pressure and had no self esteem.... but relationships screw with your emotions.... Im just sticking with the gym.... lol your pecks will never let you down!

[DDRFreak]

Originally Posted by Turbo-Muscle5

when u guys see a gurl who u like.. hwat do u do to start talking to to her and how to u start the buzz and get her to like u. I find that im very compatible with some girls and can make them laugh so fast - but i usually dont like these girls. However the girls i want i never know what to say or how to even start the first convo.

help guys plz....

Yeah, I have the same problem

[DDRFreak]

Originally Posted by Turbo-Muscle5

ya, but i could get the girls i want - im not going to the super super hot girls.

i just dont know what to say to a girl when i care about her. (like her)

but when i dont care if shes gonna be my friend or a gf then i can make her laugh all i want and she ends up asking me for my name


problem i have right now is a girl younger than me likes me, i dont see here in the halls almost never
when shes at her locker shes with about 10 friends that i dunno, and i get no oppurtunity to meet her. I DONT EVEN KNOW HERE NAME. but she smiles at me when she sees me in the halls wtf. why wont she give me an apportunity to approach her......... man this is prolly not gonna work out

I posted up a similar topic, one good idea was to be yourself. So I'm telling you to be yourself. Just take it easy and joke about whatever you joke about with the other girls and let it go naturally.

[Iskreemman]

Originally Posted by bar scrapper

I agree yo, and i have a one word answer as well: ALCOHOL!!!

While Alcohol will loosen your tongue it well also lower your standards so make sure you just have a few drinks.

[rckpytn]

bump on the alcohol, i am normally very shy and don't talk much, but after a few drinks i definatelty have more confidence and can talk to anyone without feeling totally weird.

[Turbo-Muscle5]

[tuffguy]

just be yourself, talk to them as if you dont want to pick them up.

[Taekwondo Guy]

its all about confidence... pitty i have none at the best of times as i have a nightmare approaching women. I have a lot of friends who are girls, and when the get hit on my blokes, i tend to hear them slaggin them off as soon as the blokes gone to the bar to get them a free drink lol.

just be yourself, never use a line, never try to show off, you'll become as transparent as a window.

the best times i've pulled is when i'm drunk, up with the dutch courage and just went out for a laugh...

[bar scrapper]

Originally Posted by Iskreemman

While Alcohol will loosen your tongue it well also lower your standards so make sure you just have a few drinks.

Just have to make sure you get in and out before the liqour wares off... lol

[Daniel(TX)]

Dont limit yourself... go for the super super hot girls. Rule #1 be comfortable with yourself... even if your a little overweight or not as muscular as you want to be just dont let it bother you. I dont go for the be a prick routine... I just play myself and I do just fine. Man the one thing that has worked for me is to ask them if they want to go out sometime just as soon after I get their name... then if they say that they have a boyfriend I just smile and say "well he's more the luckier" 9 times out of 10 they'll keep an eye on you afterward and if anything happens then you get a guaranteed hookup.

[El_Torro]

Originally Posted by tuffguy

just be yourself, talk to them as if you dont want to pick them up.

It's that simple folks. Shy, confident, fat, small, handsome, ugly, or whatever there's someone for everyone. I for example h8 the overconfidence thing in women, a bit slutty imo. I prefer brunettes not blondes, my favourite body parts are the eyes and butt... It's all about personal taste, why bother trying to be someone you aren't