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02-24-2008, 10:55 AM
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Girlfriend Woes
Alright, I dunno what to make of this. I'm used to dating girls, lots of girls, but relationships, not so much. So I was talking to/dated this girl for two months, maybe a little more and we made things official on the 4th of this month. Things were going along just swimmingly. I've noticed lately, like this week that she has been a little distant. We saw eachother a lot this week, almost everday sleeping over eachothers houses. Now, the only reason I can come up with for her being distant is because I've "been there." I mean, I haven't really been the man in this relationship controlling if it's "off or on or on or off." I don't want this to end so I wanna shake things up. How can I get that control back? Or ****, if you think it's something else I'm all ears. Cause I tried asking her about it and she kind of just shrugged it off with a weak answer. Thanks in advance.
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02-24-2008, 12:29 PM
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This IS NOT the Suzy homemaker forum. LOL.
Dating Advice Forums: Fun, chit-chat, and dating advice, without the sugary candy-coating.
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02-24-2008, 01:49 PM
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Just play it cool like you dont care. Dont make any attempt to contact her for a week and see what happens.
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02-24-2008, 02:05 PM
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sounds like she is not entirely sure about your relationship with you? bought on by spending more time together.
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02-24-2008, 04:35 PM
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If i would to talk on the PHONE with my gf everyday for a week i'd want some time off too, let alone spending hours with each other everyday.
The "I just need a little space" isn't a bad thing. It isn't a good thing either sometimes. I'd say play it cool, don't be all "i need you now every second of every minute" cause you'll probably freak her out. Go online and watch some porn and wait for her. hahaha Squat and deadlift, I LOVE IT!
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02-24-2008, 05:41 PM
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HahaHa, thanks for the advice. it's what i figured. She was wearing me out, cause frankly I was getting tired of it as well. Thanks again. I'mma go deadlift!
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02-24-2008, 10:02 PM
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02-25-2008, 06:43 AM
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02-25-2008, 01:29 PM
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Nah, she still calls me all the time. She even wants me to come over her house for her sisters Birthday tonight..I dunno if I'm gonna go yet.
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02-25-2008, 01:49 PM
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I agree with Mitch...J-lo was right, Mitch's advice is best
I always found that making myself a little less interested than I really was always worked well. It keeps them on their toes and most woman want a little excitement and that comes from them having to "gain your attention" rather than her being bored because she knows that no matter what she already has your attention. Good luck buddy
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02-25-2008, 03:19 PM
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She is testing you to see how clingy/needy you are...women test men constantly don't go... tell her you have other things to do and you will call her later (in a couple days) women appreciate men more when they have a life outside the relationship....clingy/needy is NOT attractive
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02-25-2008, 07:17 PM
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*****es are all drama all the time! Trade her in on another one!
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02-25-2008, 08:02 PM
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