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Old 06-29-2007, 09:07 AM
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was out with my mate for a few bevvies last night and this girl started chatting to us.

My mate was like nah she's too fat, i like girls to be really lean, ANY weight at all and it does nothing for me.

This is from a man who has not trained in about 3 years and is about 20 lbs overweight with no muscle at all.

Why do we demand so much when we are delivering so little ourselves.
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Old 06-29-2007, 10:30 AM
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is he getting any from anyone????
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The same reason why women expect perfection from a guy.
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Your mate probably has unrealistic expectations from watching too much porn.
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Old 07-01-2007, 09:43 PM
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Your mate probably has unrealistic expectations from watching too much porn.
DAMN! Must be the reason why I set high standards...lol
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Old 07-01-2007, 09:45 PM
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DAMN! Must be the reason why I set high standards...lol
i still remember the thread years ago about porn and you said you been watchign it since you were like 10. I remember everyone was like "dude, your 15, etc..."

cracks me up everytime
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Old 07-01-2007, 09:49 PM
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i still remember the thread years ago about porn and you said you been watchign it since you were like 10. I remember everyone was like "dude, your 15, etc..."

cracks me up everytime
that was me? haha probably so.
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first thing that comes to mind is he is looking for someone to make himself look better without changing himself.
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Yeah, I remember VLittleNate when he first came to bb4u. He was asking questions about potty training, and what supplements to take.
haha i think i was like 15-16 when i first joined, now I am 20. Damn, it is amazing how time just flies by. Sophomore in high school and now a junior in college.
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My girlfriend right now i pretty big.. LOL

she's as tall as me, clearly over weight but she still manages to look very fukin good and very fukin sexy.

I honestly dont have the balls to ask her how much she weighs..

The thing is that she has amazing legs+breasts+tits combo. Her midsection isnt too nice but she's damn gorgeous.
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Old 07-03-2007, 12:03 PM
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My girlfriend right now i pretty big.. LOL

she's as tall as me, clearly over weight but she still manages to look very fukin good and very fukin sexy.

I honestly dont have the balls to ask her how much she weighs..

The thing is that she has amazing legs+breasts+tits combo. Her midsection isnt too nice but she's damn gorgeous.
well thats the thing man. normally, when u find larger girls, they think since they are big they dont even try to look nice. i know some larger girls too that are just pretty, they dress well, and wear the right amount of makeup (the caked on makeup is pretty gross) and so forth. Someone doesnt have to be thin to be attractive.

But in your friends situation, he can't expect some model to like him and him not even attempt to get in better shape. Like someone said above me, porn puts a really warped view of what is normal in peoples minds. With all the airbrushed photos, hours of makeup, plastic surgery, its just ridiculous for men to expect most women to look like that. That is just fake beauty anyways, mot of those people are trashy, and more than likely arent that attractive if you were to actually have a conversation with them. Unrealistic expectations are a big problem for men in this country i think.
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My girlfriend right now i pretty big.. LOL

she's as tall as me, clearly over weight but she still manages to look very fukin good and very fukin sexy.

I honestly dont have the balls to ask her how much she weighs..

The thing is that she has amazing legs+breasts+tits combo. Her midsection isnt too nice but she's damn gorgeous.
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well thats the thing man. normally, when u find larger girls, they think since they are big they dont even try to look nice. i know some larger girls too that are just pretty, they dress well, and wear the right amount of makeup (the caked on makeup is pretty gross) and so forth. Someone doesnt have to be thin to be attractive.

But in your friends situation, he can't expect some model to like him and him not even attempt to get in better shape. Like someone said above me, porn puts a really warped view of what is normal in peoples minds. With all the airbrushed photos, hours of makeup, plastic surgery, its just ridiculous for men to expect most women to look like that. That is just fake beauty anyways, mot of those people are trashy, and more than likely arent that attractive if you were to actually have a conversation with them. Unrealistic expectations are a big problem for men in this country i think.
I really like both of these posts!

Toronto's is kinda funny, but real sweet in a way. To me, it basically says..."yeah my girls a little on the chubby side, but she's hot to me" and I think that's great! A girl doesn't need to be all around perfect in order to look pretty or sexy imo.

And, to me, wnxmaximus' post is just a very level headed and mature post, and I respect that.
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was out with my mate for a few bevvies last night and this girl started chatting to us.

My mate was like nah she's too fat, i like girls to be really lean, ANY weight at all and it does nothing for me.

This is from a man who has not trained in about 3 years and is about 20 lbs overweight with no muscle at all.

Why do we demand so much when we are delivering so little ourselves.
The last I checked, woman do the same thing.
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The last I checked, woman do the same thing.
More so.
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ya they do, it doesnt make it right. My post was for all, women and men, children and senior citizens..... expect those that you are with to take care of themselves, that is realistic, it is showing respect to yourself and the ones you love.... but do not expect them to achieve the impossible, because then you become disappointed with them, and that is not fair either.
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ya they do, it doesnt make it right. My post was for all, women and men, children and senior citizens..... expect those that you are with to take care of themselves, that is realistic, it is showing respect to yourself and the ones you love.... but do not expect them to achieve the impossible, because then you become disappointed with them, and that is not fair either.
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