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FoRuMbOaRdS360 · #1 (**permalink**) 04-18-2007, 02:19 AM

Am I the only guy that God decides to give cuirve balls EVERY freakin day? Literally I cant make it through a day w/o a damn curve ball. Whether its girl problems(trying to hook up with a long time friend) or take today for example. Not only did I run into this girl trouble crap, yesterday I asked her if she wanted to hangout sometime this week and she said yes and then also invited me to a dinner party with her tomorrow. Now today I asked when we gonna hangout this week and she said she will have to get back to me in a "its not going to happen" way.... IT WAS A DAMN 12 hour difference WTF could have possibly happened?

Oh and better yet I just got on my bank account to check it right? I had 79.29 in my savings, well I get on and I now have -6.08 and it said 79.29 was withdrawn from a overdraft............... SO WHY DO I NOT HAVE 0 not -6.08. Then i also have -10.00 in my checking for the overdraft. THIS IS SOME CRAP

Seriously I think God wakes up and goes, lets see how I can fvck with John today.

So anyone else get this crap?

Taekwondo Guy · #2 (**permalink**) 04-18-2007, 02:34 AM

#1 your woman has you jumping through hoops lol
She has you chasing her to spend time together... stop making yourself so available, fill your diary with your own life and when she wants to meet up then you plan it round both your lifes...not just hers

#2 losing $10, not such a bad deal....

you have got it easy, i dont think you realise that when you consider what other people call curve balls lol

hrpiii · #3 (**permalink**) 04-18-2007, 04:39 AM

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Originally Posted by FoRuMbOaRdS360

Am I the only guy that God decides to give cuirve balls EVERY freakin day? Literally I cant make it through a day w/o a damn curve ball. Whether its girl problems(trying to hook up with a long time friend) or take today for example. Not only did I run into this girl trouble crap, yesterday I asked her if she wanted to hangout sometime this week and she said yes and then also invited me to a dinner party with her tomorrow. Now today I asked when we gonna hangout this week and she said she will have to get back to me in a "its not going to happen" way.... IT WAS A DAMN 12 hour difference WTF could have possibly happened?

Oh and better yet I just got on my bank account to check it right? I had 79.29 in my savings, well I get on and I now have -6.08 and it said 79.29 was withdrawn from a overdraft............... SO WHY DO I NOT HAVE 0 not -6.08. Then i also have -10.00 in my checking for the overdraft. THIS IS SOME CRAP

Seriously I think God wakes up and goes, lets see how I can fvck with John today.

So anyone else get this crap?

I get up in the morning as say... "Oh Lord, give it to John one more time!!!" Then go take a hot shower.

BiggerGuns=LongerDrives · #4 (**permalink**) 04-18-2007, 09:13 AM

FoRuMbOaRdS360, your "curve balls" arent sh!t.

* There are people, who today will be told by their doctor they have cancer and will die.

* There are people today around the world that will have their children go missing, never to be seen again

* There are 33 people who were murdered at VT and all have family members who have to wake up today to the staunch reality that they will never see their loved ones ever again.

You get my point?

I try to never feel pitty or sorry for myself as I realize how lucky I am to be breathing and living life.
Just turn your thoughts around to "This could be so much worse" and be thankful to God.

.

Lifter101 · #5 (**permalink**) 04-18-2007, 10:02 AM

I can understand you pissed off at the bank account. But your girl problem ain't a problem man. Go lift some heavy weights, they'll always be there for you. haha.

FoRuMbOaRdS360 · #6 (**permalink**) 04-18-2007, 10:32 AM

Haha guys its not like I want pity. I laugh at all this crap that happens to me. I mean like Tommy said, if im still alive after it, its fine to laugh at.

But you know what I mean. Like everyday I need to have somthing happen. Hell I could lay in bed all day and somthing would happen LOL.

And tk guy i lost 90$ and i have no idea where it went LOL. But you see thats just one more thing.

FoRuMbOaRdS360 · #7 (**permalink**) 04-18-2007, 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Lifter101

I can understand you pissed off at the bank account. But your girl problem ain't a problem man. Go lift some heavy weights, they'll always be there for you. haha.

HAHAHA you know it. Thats why I love the gym so damn much. That baby doesnt change.

BiggerGuns=LongerDrives · #8 (**permalink**) 04-18-2007, 11:04 AM

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Originally Posted by FoRuMbOaRdS360

And tk guy i lost 90$ and i have no idea where it went LOL. But you see thats just one more thing.

Well bro, I bet you either took money from the ATM from your checking or wrote some checks that were for more than what was in your checking , so they took the money from your savings?
But they cant be charging you 2 overddraft fee's if they do that, so you better call your bank.

Thats why I stick my savings in my sock drawer

FoRuMbOaRdS360 · #9 (**permalink**) 04-18-2007, 11:18 AM

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Originally Posted by BiggerGuns=LongerDrives

Well bro, I bet you either took money from the ATM from your checking or wrote some checks that were for more than what was in your checking , so they took the money from your savings?
But they cant be charging you 2 overddraft fee's if they do that, so you better call your bank.

Thats why I stick my savings in my sock drawer

You would think wouldnt you? I havent touched my bank in a week due to a $460 fine I just got. I think they might have taken the 79.29 out of the savings for the fine... but wouldnt it be labeled? I have to contact the bank.

And to clear things up, I know some people do get some real curve balls, I was just wondering if you guys like me got the little ones everyday.

BiggerGuns=LongerDrives · #10 (**permalink**) 04-18-2007, 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by FoRuMbOaRdS360

And to clear things up, I know some people do get some real curve balls, I was just wondering if you guys like me got the little ones everyday.

Sure man, when it rains it pours as they say.
I have stuff like that happen all the time, just cant catch a break, lose this lose that, have to pay for this, have to pay for that...

It's just the way the ball bounces from time to time.
Just roll with the punches

FoRuMbOaRdS360 · #11 (**permalink**) 04-18-2007, 11:31 AM

Yup, my outlook is now to just sit back and laugh at how unlucky I am. Like I said once its happened its done, nothing you can do about it. Might as well not stress over it and hey why not get a little laugh off it too.

POWERJIM · #12 (**permalink**) 04-18-2007, 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by FoRuMbOaRdS360

Yup, my outlook is now to just sit back and laugh at how unlucky I am. Like I said once its happened its done, nothing you can do about it. Might as well not stress over it and hey why not get a little laugh off it too.

Maybe you should change your outlook and sit back and count your blessing, if you have good health you have everything mate.

Cheer up.

BiggerGuns=LongerDrives · #13 (**permalink**) 04-18-2007, 11:44 AM

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Originally Posted by FoRuMbOaRdS360

Yup, my outlook is now to just sit back and laugh at how unlucky I am. Like I said once its happened its done, nothing you can do about it. Might as well not stress over it and hey why not get a little laugh off it too.

Let me tell you a funny story

I went to Vegas when I was 21 one time and the night before I had a dream of a giant slot machine and me winning the jackpot.
Well I get to Vegas and I was with friends and they wanted to eat badly as we were all starving. So we go in a casino and there right before the escalator that leads up to the buffet was a big giant slot machine!!!
So I was like "Whoa, this is my dream" so I maybe everyone stop so I could play it and of course they all complained as I pulled out my wallet to put some dollars in the machine...It held up to $5 per pull.
So all I have is 3 dollar bills and a bunch of 20's and 100's.
Well I tried to get someone to give me $2 more dollars, they all moaned and left me to eat..so I was ticked off and I wasnt letting my Slot machine get away...so i looked around for an attendant to get change..after a few minutes I just decided to play with the $3.00.....
So I put the dollar bills in and pull the handle...it spins around and the first slot comes up "JACKPOT" and the next slot follows "JACKPOT" and the 3rd slot comes up JACKPOT

So I am like WOO-HOO I WON, I WON, WOO-HOO and I am sort of screaming this out loud, but then all of a sudden I dont hear any coins dropping out.
So I am like WTF? I look again at the slot machine and in order to get the jackpot, you have to have $5.00 dollars in there or you win nothing...nothing at all.

So there I was like a kid who lost his puppy and I moped around the whole weekend knowing I had basically lost $3,000 ...the jackpot

I was only 21 back then, learned alot from that experience as I let that event ruin the whole weekend...I was just a sack of sh!t the rest of the trip, moping, complaining and b!tching.

I learned from that experience though, I am now 32, I'd still get pissed, but 10 mins later I'd be in the bar now laughing it off

Hannainnc · #14 (**permalink**) 04-18-2007, 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by BiggerGuns=LongerDrives

Let me tell you a funny story

I went to Vegas when I was 21 one time and the night before I had a dream of a giant slot machine and me winning the jackpot.
Well I get to Vegas and I was with friends and they wanted to eat badly as we were all starving. So we go in a casino and there right before the escalator that leads up to the buffet was a big giant slot machine!!!
So I was like "Whoa, this is my dream" so I maybe everyone stop so I could play it and of course they all complained as I pulled out my wallet to put some dollars in the machine...It held up to $5 per pull.
So all I have is 3 dollar bills and a bunch of 20's and 100's.
Well I tried to get someone to give me $2 more dollars, they all moaned and left me to eat..so I was ticked off and I wasnt letting my Slot machine get away...so i looked around for an attendant to get change..after a few minutes I just decided to play with the $3.00.....
So I put the dollar bills in and pull the handle...it spins around and the first slot comes up "JACKPOT" and the next slot follows "JACKPOT" and the 3rd slot comes up JACKPOT

So I am like WOO-HOO I WON, I WON, WOO-HOO and I am sort of screaming this out loud, but then all of a sudden I dont hear any coins dropping out.
So I am like WTF? I look again at the slot machine and in order to get the jackpot, you have to have $5.00 dollars in there or you win nothing...nothing at all.

So there I was like a kid who lost his puppy and I moped around the whole weekend knowing I had basically lost $3,000 ...the jackpot

I was only 21 back then, learned alot from that experience as I let that event ruin the whole weekend...I was just a sack of sh!t the rest of the trip, moping, complaining and b!tching.

I learned from that experience though, I am now 32, I'd still get pissed, but 10 mins later I'd be in the bar now laughing it off

that must have sucked

everything is a lesson

BiggerGuns=LongerDrives · #15 (**permalink**) 04-18-2007, 12:08 PM

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that must have sucked

everything is a lesson

Yep I agree, everything is a lesson

Sometimes I feel like it's a test to see how we hold up, how we handle it.

Ergogenomic · #16 (**permalink**) 04-18-2007, 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by FoRuMbOaRdS360

... yesterday I asked her if she wanted to hangout sometime this week and she said yes and then also invited me to a dinner party with her tomorrow. Now today I asked when we gonna hangout this week and she said she will have to get back to me in a "its not going to happen" way.... IT WAS A DAMN 12 hour difference WTF could have possibly happened?

She was drunk then and now she's sober?