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02-07-2006, 10:11 PM
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On Being 'Just Friends'
I guess the poll field wasnt big enough to hold the question but here it is:
Yes or No? When guys complain that they keep getting stuck just being 'just friends' with girls its mostly likely cuz girls find them unattractive i hear about these guys complaining "Why do girls only wanna be just friends with me?" and i think "dont act like you dont know". sorry bro but they just aint attracted to ya. Luckily i dont have that problem. well i know there are some circumstances where it happens that a girl just wants to be friends with a guy but im talking about when it habitually happens to the guy so much so that he feels the need to complain about it. if it happens that often there is a reason...... Last edited by Fonz; 02-07-2006 at 11:00 PM. 
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02-07-2006, 10:50 PM
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Oh im not saying unattractive guys can only be just friends with girls but im saying that when a guy complains that he keeps getting stuck with girls that wanna just be friends with him that its beacuse there is no mutal attraction.
Last edited by Fonz; 02-07-2006 at 10:54 PM.
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02-08-2006, 07:53 AM
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02-08-2006, 08:02 AM
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Yep...you have got to play the game...it is all in how you act that determines whether or not you are branded a permanent friend...
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02-08-2006, 08:49 AM
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being attractive to a woman is more than just looks...its how one acts and his attitude as well.
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02-08-2006, 10:08 AM
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I don't believe it's due to being unattractive either. I dated a couple guys that would have been considered 'homely', but I was totally attracted to their personality. The time in my life when I was only willing to 'be friends' was when I went through a time after my break-up with my fiance that I wasn't interested in a serious relationship. I kept every guy I dated during that time 'at arms length'. I was actually amazed that three of those guys kept calling me back to go out constantly. I wasn't about to get serious with anyone after what I went through during the break up. I forgot to add...I know some guys that used to make a habit of hooking up with chicks that had come out of bad relationships. That is the type of situation that will set you up for 'an only friends' scenario in my book. I even told two of them that they would be better off finding someone else since they were looking for more in a relationship than I was. (Two of the three asked me to marry them.)
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02-08-2006, 04:35 PM
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So yes, it is because in one way or another she is not attracted to him.
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02-08-2006, 04:38 PM
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02-08-2006, 04:42 PM
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02-09-2006, 05:46 PM
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it happens to chicks too.
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02-10-2006, 07:48 AM
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....beauty is in the eye of the beholder... Maybe he is attractive to her??
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02-10-2006, 08:23 AM
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when a girl says, "Let's just be friends," it means ONE THING ONLY!!!!! I means, "I don't find you attractive."
Attractive doesnt just mean looks it means the whole package deal!!! They know within a few seconds of meeting you what they want out of you. Taken from the book, "How To Talk To Anyone," by Leil Lowndes "So, whenever people meet you, they take an instant mental snapshot. That image of you becomes the data they deal with for a very long time... Even before your lips part and the first syllable escapes, the essence of YOU has already axed its way into thier brains. The way you look and they way you move is more than 80% of someone's first impression of you. Not one word need be spoken."  _
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02-11-2006, 06:06 AM
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