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It seems to me that inevitably, a newb will make a comment about not lifting heavy because she doesn't want to get big and bulky. As a matter of fact, I would venture to say that MORE people believe that is what happens as opposed to the exception here on the board. |
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In my opinion this message cannot be mentioned enough!
I've been training most of my life. With breaks for pregnancies and illness. Every single time I went back to training (in a gym) other women would notice that I didn't train like them and I didn't do mad amounts of cardio. Nearly every woman would comment to me, "I worry about looking like a man, I wouldn't ever do what you are doing...." Whenever possible I would try and get them to converse with me a bit so I could tell them, "I've been at this since my late teens, do I look bulky like a man to you?" It took me years to find a woman friend that wasn't afraid to lift like I do. Sadly we live across town and can't spot each other/train together, but we check in with each other weekly to access where we are at and where we are going with our training. The myth that a woman that lifts heavy will get bulky like a man is deeply rooted.
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i have this problem with my husband....i was bending over the other day and he goes...."holy crap"....i was like, "whats wrong" and he said that when i stood up my back was ripped. I smiled and he told me to stop working on it and i am trying to convince him that i am not going to be one of those women you see on the mag's...but he keeps telling my i have the genetics and he doesnt want me looking like a man...
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Does he workout? |
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You have been running, correct? I think your losing body fat & your muscles are starting to show. LOL....that's waht I would tell him 'hunny, I'm just getting leaner' |
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No, Musclesntx....he doesnt...sure wish he did!
No Liana, i'm not big (i think some of the pics make me look a little manly LOL) but im not petite...just athletic looking! I am running and droppin some fat, so i think he just sees more muscles and it is scaring him! ![]() |
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This is now a sticky as I have discovered many women that 'pass through' the board for information stop in only three places. Diet, Weight loss and Just for the ladies. They may not choose to stay once they get the information they need. But in their brief stay at BB4U I want them to come away with a bit of sound knowledge than they may have started off with. Edit: For the very observant... I 'cleaned' the thread. I really hate to lock it though as some newbies would be more comfortable asking a question in this thread while the thought is fresh in their mind verses posting a new thread for a question. Although! If the thread becomes muckied up again any of the lady mods in this section can feel free to delete everything after the intial posting by Boyd and lock this thread out.
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...I am the wanderer's wandering daughter... Last edited by Hawkwind; 10-01-2005 at 07:28 AM. |
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I appreciate this post very much. I have been a bit worried because my trainer uses weights that are heavier then what I would normally use. And I've asked him the same question, is this going to make me bulky? He says no and I can only trust him because I have no clue what I"m really doing. Hence, the need to be in this forum reading everyone's advice.
So thanks, that just reassured me. Not that I think female body builders are in any way unattractive, I just know I could never maintain that kind of workout and lifestyle . RYAN<----------LAZY!
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