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Originally Posted by mitchcumstein
So basically youre saying that rubbing one off period is disrespectful. What do you think guys are imagining when theyre doing it, baseball? No, theyre fantasizing about another woman more often than not. whats the difference if yorue looking at a web page, a magazine, or just doing it in the shower sans material? Masturbation is bad, lust for another woman, sounds like a bunch of fvckn religious garbage to me. Many people like myself dont buy into that sh!t cause were capable of thinking for ourselves.
My wife and i are very respectful of each other and thats why weve been married 11 happy years (together for 15) while a large majority of couples around us (friends, family, etc) are winding up in divorce. My parents have been married 45 years, my wifes have been married almost 30 years, and guess what, neither one of us were brought up in sexually repressive households so were pretty much issue free. I expect to be with her till i die.
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Mitch what you and your wife practice in your marriage works for you guys. And thats great. I was not raised in a sexualy repressed household either. I have formed my opinion based on my experience in life. I do think for myself I make a choice to live as certain way. The fact that its different that what you believe doesnt make is "garbage" or "sh1t" as you put it. I have found an enriched way of living by following some principals that you call "religious".
My husband and I have a awesome sexual relationship. But one thing I can say is I have a complete confidence that he is 100% devoted to me. I'm what he desires, not some fasade of what women should look like or act like. Im not just hole for him to get his nut in. We have passion. The real deal. He has no desire to look at porn. I have 100% of my husbands heart, BODY and soul.