Not a thing to worry about! I don't mean to sound too sympathetic to your husband as you've made it perfectly clear you've given him every chance, but I just wanted to offer an alternative approach and see if you had tried it. You said you have and the fact that you would approach him physically only to be rejected and replaced soon after by pornography does raise concern for acute fetish.
Second, the thing I love about this community is that it is just that... a community. There are a lot of hardasses on here that are just as likely to punch you in the mouth as give you a hug, but in the end, they are always willing to help and provide an immense amount of wisdom. I wouldn't be where I am today physically without all of their help.
Anyways, I really hope you figure things out and can salvage your engagement, but at this point in time, it would be really hard for any of us to say he deserves you.
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