WOW, this one is especially hot, not to sound like a perv, just the truth
Robyn you have made amazing progress, I cant even tell you have had a child. So don't be getting down on your looks as most women would kill for a body like you have and most men kill to have their woman look like that.
I know your goals are over and above what you have achieved so far, but looking back at where you have come from should provide you with all the motivation you need to achieve them...congrats!
Good luck, now go have a Tuna and Apple shake!