Robyn you gotta understand that it isn't your issue, it is his. There isn't a thing wrong with you, period. He's got issues that he needs to work out before you head down the marriage path with him. I would also be worried about other things that he might not be completely honest about. Oh, one more thing: there is no such thing as a healthy lie. A lie is a lie, period. Liers become a problem...at first, it's just one little one. Then, it moves on to something else that's maybe a little bit worse. It's a progressive thing, just like drinking or gambling (or porn). You sound like a fantastic woman, and he is lucky to have you and should get his act together.
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