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Originally Posted by Robyn81478

Joe -as far as "getting enough from your significant other"..... trust me when I say he gets plenty. I'm not trying to be perverted or talk dirty here, but on a normal week we have sex 4-5 times. If it were up to me it would be every day. He has called me a nympho many times. I have a very high sex drive and I'm pretty open in that area. By that I mean, I'm no prude. I'm not going to get graphic because it's just not right to do so, so let's just say I'm very adventurous.

Yes, we do have a problem with this. We have been together for 2 and a half years and about 6 months into the relationship I discovered he looks at it quite often, even though he was telling me he never did. Since then, roughly every 3 weeks I find it on the computer. (now mind you I do not believe that he only looks at it every 3 weeks, this is just how often I check) When I question him about it he lies and says that he hasn't. Don't get me wrong, before this I never had a problem with porn. I've watched it plenty of times and I've never been upset that someone I'm dating has watched it. My problem comes from the lies and deceit about it. It has completely broken down my self esteem and my emotions. I'm honestly at my breaking point with it and I'm supposed to get married next month. Just yesterday I put a tracker on the computer at home so that I could view what he was looking at at home while I was at work. Within 20 minutes of me leaving there were about 20 websites viewed. I then asked him if he was looking at porn and he said no. I asked him if he promised and swore on everything he had and he said yes. Then I told him I was viewing what he was watching and his response was that he " was going to tell me later". I honestly am at a breaking point with this and I don't know what to do. Most of you I am sure will say that viewing it is not cheating, but I'm actually at a point where I feel like it is because it comes before me at all times.

ouch, that sucks robyn.

sounds like he might be addicted to porn. I would be upset to.