Most men look at porn because they aren't getting enough from their significant other. I understand that women and men are different, time constraints, kids, all that. Men are pretty simple - feed us, stroke our ego, and give us plenty of lovin' and 99% will be perfectly happy.
Is it cheating? Tough call. Lust in the heart is the same as lust in the flesh, if you listen to what your preacher and The Bible say. If you have asked him to stop and he hasn't, then that is a problem. Porn, just like gambling or booze, is addictive. It can also be destructive.
Dishonesty is no good, in any fashion, for any relationship. Sounds like you and your significant other are having issues with it?
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