went out saturday night to a city i've never been before.
the first bar i went up with my good mate, confidence brimming as i had nothing to worry about... chatted up the first girl i saw and as part of my ice breaker i took a pirates hat some poor guy was wearing as he dressed up as Jack Sparrow lol.
chatted her up succesfully but i was dragged away after 30 mins as everyone was moving on to another bar.
in the night club i scored with a bunny girl (all girls like to dress as bunny girls on a birthday lol). just walked up to her and started talking, managed to seperate her from her mates (not an easy task as all guys know) and hey presto!
It wasnt long before the pack of zebra came back to gather up one that was lagging behind the pack though. Had my fun and went on my way
Now.....
if i was in my home town i doubt this would of happened, but because i was in a strange city, didnt give a rats ass about embarressing myself and just went 'happy go lucky' it worked ten fold.
When i'm full of confidence nothing can stop me, when i'm off form i am waaaay off form.