[baseball]

Ok so this is amazingly embarassing and I can't believe that i would ever mention it to a close friend, let alone an entire forum. Ok well here's the problem. For about the past year I've gone through ALOT. I was put under alot of stress, there was a ton of unhappiness in my life. I went through an awful break up with a girl who i loved alot that i had been with since junior high. I think as much as I've been through, I do not think i am "depressed." I'm just REALLY, REALLY stressed out. so here's the problem...I'm in college and school work's just been adding to my stress. i have a girlfriend who wants to have sex (neither of us are virgins)...but like i'm having a hard time "getting up" like I used to. I really don't have much of a sex drive either...its almost like i dont even care to have sex. I'm only 19 so im dismissing the idea of some sort of erectile problem. I'm thinking it may have something to do with my testosterone level because of all the stress I've had. has anyone else had this problem? how can i find out if my testosterone is low? and what are some things i can do to boost it. I'm feeling really un-manly right now because of this and I really need some guidance. any help would be appreciated. im supremely embarrassed about this. thanks everyone