Wow, yes what a tough one. I can't speak from current experience, but have had some men in the past that were unfaithful. Not too much to worry about the porn stuff either. It is easy to project one situation with all the rest to come.
I think you may need to express to your husband what your concerns are and talk it out. I kinda had the same problem with my H, with his vette and his buddies in the beginning, but now I am glad that he enjoys his hobby and its gives me some time for myself.
Maybe you should seek counseling to get to the CORE of your problem so you won't be projecting on the new H.
Good Luck....
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